Child Custody Laws in California 2026: Complete Guide
Understanding child custody in California is essential for parents going through divorce or separation. California courts prioritize the best interests of the child when making custody decisions. This guide explains the types of custody, how courts decide, and what you need to know.
Types of Child Custody in California
California recognizes two main types of custody, each with different arrangements:
Legal Custody
Legal custody refers to the right and responsibility to make important decisions about your child's life, including:
- Education (school choice, special education)
- Healthcare (medical treatments, therapy)
- Religion (religious upbringing)
- Extracurricular activities
Joint Legal Custody: Both parents share decision-making authority (most common arrangement)
Sole Legal Custody: One parent has exclusive right to make major decisions
Physical Custody
Physical custody determines where the child lives and the time-sharing schedule:
- Joint Physical Custody: Child spends substantial time with both parents
- Sole Physical Custody: Child lives primarily with one parent; the other has visitation
- Primary Physical Custody: Child lives mostly with one parent but has regular visitation with the other
Important Note
Joint legal custody does NOT necessarily mean equal time with each parent. Parents can have joint legal custody while one parent has primary or sole physical custody.
Best Interests of the Child
California courts use the "best interests of the child" standard. Factors considered include:
Primary Factors
- Health, safety, and welfare of the child
- History of abuse or domestic violence (given highest priority)
- Child's age and health
- Emotional ties between child and parents
- Each parent's ability to care for the child
- Child's connection to home, school, and community
- Child's preference (if mature enough, typically age 12+)
- Each parent's ability to provide stability
- Willingness to facilitate relationship with other parent
- Substance abuse by either parent
What Courts Do NOT Consider
- Parent's gender (California does not favor mothers over fathers)
- Parent's sexual orientation
- Disability alone (unless it affects parenting ability)
- Parent's work schedule (unless extreme)
Getting a Custody Order
Types of Custody Orders
1. Temporary Custody Orders
- In effect while your case is pending
- Can be requested early in divorce/separation proceedings
- Usually based on status quo and immediate safety concerns
2. Permanent Custody Orders
- Final custody arrangement after case conclusion
- Can be modified if circumstances change significantly
- Remains in effect until child turns 18 (or 19 if still in high school)
How to Obtain a Custody Order
Step 1: File Petition
File either:
- Petition for Dissolution (if divorcing)
- Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children (if unmarried parents)
Step 2: Serve the Other Parent
Have someone age 18+ who is not involved in the case serve the paperwork on the other parent.
Step 3: Attend Mediation
California requires parents to attend Child Custody Recommending Counseling (CCRC) before a hearing:
- Free mediation service provided by the court
- Mediator helps parents create parenting plan
- If parents agree, mediator prepares agreement for court approval
- If no agreement, mediator may make recommendations to judge
Step 4: Court Hearing
If mediation doesn't resolve issues, attend court hearing where judge decides custody.
Parenting Plans and Visitation Schedules
Common Parenting Time Schedules
2-2-3 Schedule:
- Parent A: Monday-Tuesday
- Parent B: Wednesday-Thursday
- Alternates: Friday-Sunday
- Good for: Young children, parents live close
Week On/Week Off:
- Child alternates weeks between parents
- Good for: School-age children, cooperative parents
Every Weekend:
- One parent has weekdays, other has weekends
- Good for: When one parent works weekends or children need school-week stability
Holiday and Vacation Schedules:
- Alternate major holidays (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.)
- Split school breaks (winter, spring, summer)
- Special provisions for child's birthday, Mother's/Father's Day
Modifying Custody Orders
You can request custody modification if there's a significant change in circumstances, such as:
- Relocation of one parent
- Change in child's needs (medical, educational)
- Parent's substance abuse or mental health issues
- Child's preference changes (for older children)
- Domestic violence concerns
- Substantial change in parent's living situation
Modification Process
- File Request for Order (Form FL-300)
- Serve other parent
- Attend mediation
- Court hearing if no agreement
Enforcing Custody Orders
If the other parent violates the custody order, you can:
- File for contempt of court
- Request modification to supervised visitation
- Contact local police if child is not returned
- File for emergency orders if child is in danger
Move-Away Cases
If a parent with primary custody wants to move with the child, California has specific rules:
If Parents Have Joint Custody:
The moving parent must get:
- Written consent from other parent, OR
- Court order allowing the move
Factors Courts Consider:
- Distance of proposed move
- Child's age and relationship with both parents
- Reason for move
- Impact on child's education and stability
- Feasibility of modifying visitation schedule
- Each parent's reasons for supporting/opposing move
Grandparent Visitation Rights
California allows grandparents to request visitation in specific situations:
- Parents are separated or divorced
- One parent is deceased
- Child does not live with either parent
- Parent joins grandparent's petition for visitation
Grandparents must prove visitation is in the child's best interest.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can my child decide which parent to live with?
Children age 14+ can address the court and express preferences, but the judge makes the final decision based on the child's best interests. Younger children's preferences are considered based on maturity level.
What if the other parent has a criminal record?
Criminal history is considered, especially crimes involving violence, child abuse, or drug offenses. The court may order supervised visitation or restrict custody based on the nature and timing of convictions.
How much does it cost to get a custody order?
Filing fees range from $435 to $450. If you cannot afford fees, you can request a fee waiver (Form FW-001). Mediation through the court is free. Attorney fees vary widely from $3,000 to $25,000+ for contested custody cases.
Can custody be changed if my ex remarries or has a new partner?
Remarriage alone is not grounds for modification. However, if the new spouse or partner poses a danger to the child or significantly impacts the child's welfare, you may request modification.
What if my ex violates the custody order?
Document violations and file a request for order seeking enforcement. Repeated violations can result in contempt charges, modification of custody, or even change to sole custody.
Legal References & Resources
- California Family Code § 3020 (Best Interests Standard)
- California Family Code § 3040 (Custody Order Preferences)
- California Family Code § 3044 (Custody and Domestic Violence)
- California Family Code § 3087 (Move-Away Rules)
- California Family Code § 3100-3105 (Grandparent Visitation)
- California Courts Self-Help: Child Custody Resources
Last Updated: January 12, 2026
Disclaimer: This article provides general legal information about California child custody laws and does not constitute legal advice. Child custody cases can be complex and emotionally challenging. Consult with a qualified California family law attorney for advice specific to your situation.